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Developing Personal Resilience in the Face of Change How is it that some people tend to thrive on organizational change while others whither in the face of it? What enables some people to bounce back after a setback in their job or personal life? In our consulting practice, we have seen a number of key personal characteristics that strengthen a person’s capacity to successfully overcome challenge and adversity. When present, this capacity-called resilience by those who study how people respond to stress-enables almost anyone to rise up after setbacks. Nelson Mandela, the first president of the post-apartheid Republic of South Africa, knows quite a bit about personal resilience. After serving 27 years as a political prisoner in South African jails, he not only befriended and forgave those who imprisoned and even tortured him, but was instrumental in ensuring a peaceful transition from minority to democratic rule in the new South Africa. For this he earned the Nobel Prize for Peace in 1993. “The greatest glory of living,” says Mandela, “lies not in never falling, but in rising after every fall.”
Developing the capacity to rise up successfully in the face of adversity requires an array of interdependent personal characteristics. Our research on this capacity echoes that conducted by authors Daryl Conner and Bonnie Bernard. We have found that there are a variety of personal characteristics and qualities that people can nurture and develop in themselves to strengthen their resilience. These characteristics include: Having a clear sense of identity and direction - having a clear sense of who you are and what you want to create and achieve in your life. Clarity of your identity and personal vision helps give meaning and focus to your life. Being optimistic and positive - acknowledging the realities of a challenging and complex world, viewing challenges as opportunities, and believing in yourself and your capacities to meet any challenge. This includes having the personal conviction “I have what it takes to get the job done.” Being proactive - focusing on what you need to do to achieve your goals vs. what others are or are not doing to you. People who are proactive have an internal locus of control - they believe that they determine their destiny vs. a destiny defined by others. Proactive people can appropriately separate themselves from negative messages and conditions, learning from them while not being overwhelmed by them. Being organized - developing personal systems and structures to give your life some measure of stability and continuity, especially during times of personal or professional change and disruption. Being able to solve problems - demonstrating the capacity to effectively think through and resolve personal and professional problems using the skills of planning, collaboration with others, and critical and creative thinking. Being socially competent - demonstrating responsiveness, empathy, and caring for others. This quality also involves demonstrating effective communication skills and displaying a sense of humor-an ability to laugh at yourself. Being flexible - making room in your life for alternative ideas and methods; listening to the perspectives of others; adjusting your personal vision with the realities of life that are often difficult and challenging. Getting connected - establishing a personal and professional network of relationships and partnerships that give you support, ideas, and honest feedback. Resilient people share ideas, solutions, problems, and frustrations; they focus on discovering areas of common ground and answers to common problems.
Developing your resilience requires you to be critically reflective about your internal competencies and characteristics and then to work hard to develop your resilient capacities. For the past ten years, Russell Consulting has been helping individuals and organizations enhance their resilient capacities. Through personal and organizational assessments-such as the DiSC behavioral profile, leadership assessments, and quality of worklife employee surveys-we enable people and organizations to gain critical insights into the actions that they need to take to enable them to “rise up after every fall.” Contact RCI today to discuss our ideas and approaches for enhancing your own resilience, the resilience of your staff, or of your entire organization. Making Good Decisions Decision making is the capacity to choose a course of action from among a number of alternatives. When done thoughtfully, it enables you to move in a specific direction with a high level of confidence that you have made the right choice and that the results will strengthen you or your business’ future. Despite the importance of decision making, however, we often find ourselves making choices that solve the wrong problem, don’t attack the causes (which enables the problem to surface again and again), or fail to anticipate likely obstacles to implementation. In addition, we often neglect to evaluate whether we even made the right choice. Making good decisions requires both good intuition and good processes. One, intuition, emerges from our right brain, the other, processes, from our left brain. When we have good intuition, it means that we give over to our right brain and heighten our self-awareness such that we feel and sense what is true or right based upon our personal history. Intuition is the collective wisdom that emerges from our experience-a wonderful gathering of our past successes and failures. Intuition is especially useful when we don’t have all of the facts, when data is missing, and we have to go with what feels right. One develops intuition by listening to that collective wisdom, by tuning into our sense of what seems to be true. Good processes, on the other hand, involve left brain thinking-where we apply our analytical skills to developing and following a thoughtful method for reaching the decision that best fits a specific situation. Whereas the intuitive side of problem solving strives to capture what feels right, the analytical side focuses on a careful method of analysis based upon data gathering and sorting. The best approach to problem solving involves both sides of our brain in a rich synthesis of the intuitive and the analytical. One must be careful, however, that the analytical doesn’t crowd out the intuitive-something too common in most organizations. The challenge is to create an effective analytical process that carves out space for the intuitive. Here is the problem solving model that we use and teach our clients. In it, we strive to include both halves of our brains:
Contact RCI for more information about how we can help enhance your organization’s decision making processes. Through our training and consulting services, we can help you create problem solving structures, apply our decision making model, and strengthen both your analytical and intuitive skills. The Art of Developing Consensus What is consensus? How do you best achieve it and why is it important to a team when reaching a decision? Everybody talks about consensus, but few people and teams really understand what it means to achieve consensus or how to facilitate a process that enables it to happen. Over the years in our consulting practice, we have developed a definition that helps teams put their arms around this important concept: consensus is 100% commitment by a group to proceed in a certain direction. Consensus requires that-although the decision may not be the decision that any one person might choose-all participants act as if it was their personal decision. Consensus requires that individuals feel at least 70% comfortable with the decision and agree to stand behind the decision 100%. True consensus is more likely when decision making groups understand and adopt the following core principles to help create an environment that supports and sustains consensus:
Contact RCI to explore our strategies for developing consensus on your team. We custom-design our training seminars around our clients’ unique needs and circumstances. Call RCI today to explore the ways in which the Art of Developing Consensus could help you and your team. |